- Sun Sep 12, 2010 8:18 pm
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It's really sad.
I just hope Chris doesn't spiral down in to a well of self-pity and end up dragging "Pinch 'em" Fincham to Peppermint Hippo at 11am, getting hammered on lager and spending all day stuffing crumpled up fivers in to some strumpet's G-string.
I don't think you can do the kind of work as a radio DJ with Chris' sensibilities and not have a massive ego -- he's the latest in a short line that started with the likes of Stern (not that he's a copycat, but Chris is, or was, a Stern fan).
That ego and the celebrity can create an exaggerated idea of what to expect in terms of a partner -- why should I be "trapped" in a marriage with a "normal" person?
It's the idea of "I'm a Big Celebrity, I should be able to date other hot celebrities!" without taking in to account factors other than the celebrity.
I don't think it was all a joke when Chris flirted with guests, Fearne or Jo Whiley, and he was not really discouraged even when they were clearly creeped out by it.
"Hey, I'm not the creepy guy, I'm great and a Big Celebrity! Idolise me, Debbie!"
Much of what I'm saying is pure speculation, but I don't think we can listen to Chris talk for over 10 hours a week and not pick up on some of this.
I'm not trying to suggest I know anything about Chris' relationship, but I do know something about another radio presenter who was in a similar position, at a similar age, because he's spoken about it openly:
My Main Man, Adam Carolla, was a presenter on a successful radio show and also presented a couple of TV shows.
He'd been dating his girlfriend Lynette for quite a few years, but would not bow to pressure from her to get married. Eventually, he decided to end the relationship because, as he said, he "Wanted to know what it would be like to be single as a celebrity" -- he'd not been in that position before.
Well, despite the likes of Natasha Henstridge claiming that she found Adam attractive, he soon found out that he really wasn't the fanny magnet he thought he was. He dated a few * waitresses, but no celebrities actually wanted to jump in to bed with him once they'd actually left the radio studio.
About a year later, he went back to Lynette (who is gorgeous, by the way) with his tail between his legs and she took him back.
After saying he never wanted to get married or have kids, he did both, and now has 4-year old twins with Lynette. He now says it was the best thing he ever did. He was 42 when the kids were born.
Having said all that, I don't think Chris has any obligation to anyone to discuss anything about his relationship on air or in the papers, or anywhere. If the split is not true, I'm sure he'll refute it, but if it is, he doesn't have to even mention it.
Despite the fact that the team all talk about their personal lives, it's completely fair that certain parts of their private lives remain off-limits.
Last edited by neilt0 on Sun Sep 12, 2010 8:22 pm, edited 1 time in total.