- Wed May 20, 2009 8:20 am
#387250
Its right there above what you just wrote. Why do you need someone else to remind you of what is so self evident?
I suggest you spend more time there and less here if that's what you prefer. Seems a pretty obvious course of action, but you apparently need to have obvious stuff pointed out to you.
It happens in two sets of circumstances - first, if the thread is a silly tpoic and no-one is interested in doing anything other than taking the piss, and second (as has happened here) when the subject of the original topic has run its course and everyone has had their say. We tend to chat then.
We have a few like that here - they don't tend to get any grief because most people here can tell the difference between a tool and an intelligent person who makes a few mistakes with writing.
See above - we can tell the difference. If he was an erratic poster with a lot of good stuff to say, no -one would have had a go at him at all, and the small amount of decent content his posting has had so far has been pointed out and commented on by several people.
Yes it is - and that is not what has happened here. When having your mistakes pointed out to you, and having people engage when you respond to that aggressively (as he did), can be described as bullying (which, in its real sense, is something I know an awful lot about from many different angles), that is evidence of people being over sensitive and relishing the opportunity to be offended and upset. Much as Daily Mail readers enjoy being outraged by trivia.
ThinkofaNumber wrote:Sorry can someone remind me of the original topic again?
Its right there above what you just wrote. Why do you need someone else to remind you of what is so self evident?
ThinkofaNumber wrote:I post on some other forums, the nicest one I post on is a lovely place, no swearing unless totally totally necessary, nobody gangs up or takes sides and it's great.
I suggest you spend more time there and less here if that's what you prefer. Seems a pretty obvious course of action, but you apparently need to have obvious stuff pointed out to you.
ThinkofaNumber wrote:One I post on actually has a problem with people taking threads off topic, like you all seem to enjoy doing here.
It happens in two sets of circumstances - first, if the thread is a silly tpoic and no-one is interested in doing anything other than taking the piss, and second (as has happened here) when the subject of the original topic has run its course and everyone has had their say. We tend to chat then.
ThinkofaNumber wrote:On another is a guy who posts stuff that I sometimes find very hard to work out, the spelling is dire and alot of the words are made up I think, but he has a vast amount of knowledge about what he posting on, and he is also very understanding about 'how' other people post.
We have a few like that here - they don't tend to get any grief because most people here can tell the difference between a tool and an intelligent person who makes a few mistakes with writing.
ThinkofaNumber wrote:I think you should let up on poor old Ian, he only came here and tried to join in.
See above - we can tell the difference. If he was an erratic poster with a lot of good stuff to say, no -one would have had a go at him at all, and the small amount of decent content his posting has had so far has been pointed out and commented on by several people.
ThinkofaNumber wrote:Ganging up and going on and on at someone is bullying!
Yes it is - and that is not what has happened here. When having your mistakes pointed out to you, and having people engage when you respond to that aggressively (as he did), can be described as bullying (which, in its real sense, is something I know an awful lot about from many different angles), that is evidence of people being over sensitive and relishing the opportunity to be offended and upset. Much as Daily Mail readers enjoy being outraged by trivia.
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