spacedog wrote:Mine is the usual stop smoking at some point before the end of January, to have a baby ( just don't tell the gf that :p )
Drink more beer and to start some part time self learn courses I have a couple in mind, electrical installation engineer or maybe some networking stuff.
Also to make the gf as happy as I possibly can for our duration.
Ok - I don't want to harangue someone I've only just met, but there is so much in here that's disturbing!
First - tricking your partner into having a baby is a very very very bad thing to do, please don't even joke about it (plerase tell me you were joking??!) Second - drinking more beer is a bad thing to be contemplating if you actually ARE going to have a baby - it decreases your fertility, it empties your wallet and it * up your kids lives. Or it can, anyway. Third - you are considering having a baby within a relationship you describe as being potentially "happy for the duration"? Ok, I know the statistics as well as anyone, but it seems a bit defeatist to assume that your days are numbered even before you have tricked her into conceiving.....oh, you may be right.
Good luck with the courses. Hope it all works out for you!