[MK Chris]

Boys are annoying me. This includes all of them. Lover, potentials.....

Woah.. you're still with whatsisface (I remember his name because it's mentioned in every other post but I don't want to type it because it amuses me that when you do a search for his name, pretty much only your posts show up, apart from people who have quoted you) and you're lining up "potentials" already?

That's a bit harsh.

[catherine]

Woah.. you're still with whatsisface (I remember his name because it's mentioned in every other post but I don't want to type it because it amuses me that when you do a search for his name, pretty much only your posts show up, apart from people who have quoted you) and you're lining up "potentials" already? That's a bit harsh.

Every girl needs potentials, even if it is just to imagine someone else during sexy time.

[kendra k]

Really? I must be missing something, but then again I'm just an old hag in a very stable, long term relationship.

[Yudster]

Well I must be missing it too, but it's not just since I've been old and boring. I remember in my very wildest days always thinking that if I needed - or wanted - to think about someone else whilst at it, I was clearly at it with the wrong person and shouldn't be at it at all. It was often a helpful indication that it was time to move on.....

[Ezza]

I'm just in a bad mood today. Down to many factors. I'd quite like to just escape, run away. I think that'd be good for everyone.

[catherine]

Kendra and Yudster acting all perfect is annoying me today

[MK Chris]

They're right though.

[catherine]

Are they?

Yudster next time you and Mr Yudster are doing it think about Luke Tipping.

I winz

[Yudster]

Are they?

Yudster next time you and Mr Yudster are doing it think about Luke Tipping.

I winz

I tried, it didn't work. Mr Y is nicer.

[MK Chris]

Finding someone attractive is totally different to thinking of them when you're having sex with someone else.

Annoying me today is the fact I have to go to Bristol on Friday for a couple of hours. I guess it serves me right for volunteering Norman last time!

[Vivienne]

Surely however sometimes it makes it more exciting to be thinking of someone else! (not all the time, but sometimes!).

[MK Chris]

How does it make it more exciting? I'd have thought that by virtue of the fact that you're thinking of someone else, it's inherently less exciting than you'd hoped.

[Vivienne]

Well, I think you will find it's called "fantasising"... there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't try to make it a reality. I've thought about Keanu Reeves in the past, as well as the lead singer from Hard-fi! Shock, horror!

[MK Chris]

I don't think many people fantasise while in the act with someone else.

[Vivienne]

I think, to the contrary, you will find many people do, especially if the sex life is getting a bit boring!

[wurzel]

Annoying me today is the fact I have to go to Bristol on Friday for a couple of hours. I guess it serves me right for volunteering Norman last time!

There's nothing wrong with Bristol!

[MK Chris]

I think, to the contrary, you will find many people do, especially if the sex life is getting a bit boring!

Well that's my point.. if you fantasise about something or someone else while you're having sex, obviously something is wrong.

Annoying me today is the fact I have to go to Bristol on Friday for a couple of hours. I guess it serves me right for volunteering Norman last time!

There's nothing wrong with Bristol!

I'm not so much annoyed about the place as I am the distance and early morning. But I'm not too chuffed with the place either.

[Vivienne]

[quote="TopherI think, to the contrary, you will find many people do, especially if the sex life is getting a bit boring![/quote]
Well that's my point.. if you fantasise about something or someone else while you're having sex, obviously something is wrong.

quote="Topher"]

It doesn't mean something is wrong, unless you are doing it continually!! Sometimes it's just simply spicing things up, Topher!! You have a lot to learn.

[Yudster]

I think, to the contrary, you will find many people do, especially if the sex life is getting a bit boring!

Exactly. And I don't imagine thinking about someone else while having sex with your husband or wife if inevitably going to harm the relationship either - it's just not for me, there are other ways to keep the sex life interesting which don't involve the introduction of a third party, even if they are only in the mind!

Look, for me, I am painfully aware that fundamentally I am punching way above my weight with Mr Yudster, and I think my interests are best served by keeping my attention on him!

[MK Chris]

And how would you know how much I have to "learn"? Just because you disagree with what I'm saying, doesn't mean I have a lot to learn.

I would say you have a lot to learn. Not least how to quote.

[Vivienne]

Yep, only in the mind = my point. But where it goes on continually, therein lies the problem.

[Vivienne]

And how would you know how much I have to "learn"? Just because you disagree with what I'm saying, doesn't mean I have a lot to learn.

I would say you have a lot to learn. Not least how to quote.

I, m'darling, am making less mistakes with the quotes than in the past. And when it comes to sex, I have nowt to learn you will find, only information to pass on.

[wurzel]

Annoying me today is the fact I have to go to Bristol on Friday for a couple of hours. I guess it serves me right for volunteering Norman last time!

There's nothing wrong with Bristol!

I'm not so much annoyed about the place as I am the distance and early morning. But I'm not too chuffed with the place either.

What time have you got to leave?
Why arent you too chuffed about Bristol? What part have you got to go to?

[Vivienne]

I've never fancied Bristol either from stuff I've seen on TV about it.

[wurzel]

I've never fancied Bristol either from stuff I've seen on TV about it.

For what reasons? And your basing an opinion on a whole city from stuff youve seen on the tele? Ok then...