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By Vivienne
#291380
nicola_red wrote:
Console wrote:
nicola_red wrote:alrighty, I've been resisting getting drawn into this cos it's not my argument and I don't wanna get banned. But as it's being discussed in a thread and not via PMs then I feel I can make a comment: that "meaningless fluff" is what some of our mamas taught us to know as politeness.


Yes, the 'meaningless fluff' is politeness, but it doesn't add information, it's simply a courtesy which I sometimes cannot be bothered to add. Also, you wouldn't get banned simply for arguing with me, if anything I would encourage the action.


Fair enough console. I hate arguments both in real life and on message boards, so I have no desire to get into one with you or anyone else here. It does seem that this not bothering with politeness is what's getting other people (well, boboff in this case) irritated with you, but at least you're honest enough to admit that you can't be bothered with it.


Sometimes, you just have to get straight to the point and stuff the bloody politeness !!
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By Yudster
#291398
Why? Getting to the point will have more impact on the listener if it is achieved with manners.
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By Vivienne
#291400
Personally, too much sugar sometimes can be a little wearing on the nerves! I know I can often just say what needs to be said, and it's done... it's over ! It often depends who it's coming from as well! Some people you can just take stuff from, yuds., and others... you can't!!
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By Yudster
#291406
I agree, but thats not what's happened here. Its not like Console tried politeness and that didn't work so he had to get more forceful. He was just mannerless because he couldn't be bothered to be otherwise, which is lazy and anti-social. I am surprised, he's usually very pleasant, for a geek!
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By Vivienne
#291413
I don't find him mannerless at all. He just says what needs to be said. I think his heart's in the right place (at least this is my impression anyhow), so it's all good. :-)
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By Console
#291417
Yudster wrote:He was just mannerless because he couldn't be bothered to be otherwise, which is lazy and anti-social.!


I was neither lazy or anti-social, I was actually extremely busy that day, and thought that a link to the appropriate FAQ section would suffice, which, I might add, it was. It wasn't so much a lack of manners as it was a lack of time. The problems that arose would not have been changed by me adding superfluous text like "The link below should give you the information you need to get an image in you signature".
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By Yudster
#291422
Console wrote:
nicola_red wrote:alrighty, I've been resisting getting drawn into this cos it's not my argument and I don't wanna get banned. But as it's being discussed in a thread and not via PMs then I feel I can make a comment: that "meaningless fluff" is what some of our mamas taught us to know as politeness.


Yes, the 'meaningless fluff' is politeness, but it doesn't add information, it's simply a courtesy which I sometimes cannot be bothered to add. Also, you wouldn't get banned simply for arguing with me, if anything I would encourage the action.


It was bits like this which led me to my previous comments. But it wasn't a personal criticism, everyone's different, I know you are a busy person and you look after this site eminently well, so I am fine about you occasionally being a little abrasive with it. And you have red hair, which gives you an advantage in all things as far as I am concerned.
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By Vivienne
#291424
Oh for f***'s sake!
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By Boboff
#291485
I have Red Hair and I am a Capricon, Capricious & Ginger, what a combination.

Today you will find success in a field related to Food, Gardening or Property development.

Right any chance of narrowing that down a bit Mr Grant
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By Yudster
#291500
Viv 1111 wrote:Oh for f***'s sake!


What do you mean by that? If it was a comment about the previous post, that was a direct response to Console - why is it bothering you? Youseem to be having one of your days where you have difficulty with anything which you don't agree with. You aren't always like that, whats up Viv?
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By Nicola_Red
#291503
boboff wrote:I have Red Hair and I am a Capricon, Capricious & Ginger, what a combination.


Me too! My hair is naturally auburn, so I am a genuine redhead rather than just a made-up one.
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By Yudster
#291505
I was slightly disappointed when Baby Yudster didn't come out ginger......oh well, can't have everything.
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By Nicola_Red
#291506
My cousin donated her eggs to a couple who were looking specifically for ginger donors. Dunno of course whether the baby turned out that way! Let's hope the recipients of my eggs (if it all goes ahead) don't mind the ginger gene...
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By Nicola_Red
#291515
Yeah, Poppy is a nice name. My middle name is Ruby, but I chose that myself.
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By Zoot
#291516
Your name is Nicola Ruby Red?
Very Cool!

(I'm aware that your surname isn't really Red, but let me have this moment...)
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By Nicola_Red
#291517
Zoot wrote:Your name is Nicola Ruby Red?
Very Cool!

(I'm aware that your surname isn't really Red, but let me have this moment...)


okay. Yes, yes it is! :)
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By foot-loose
#291521
Zoot wrote:Your name is Nicola Ruby Red?
Very Cool!

(I'm aware that your surname isn't really Red, but let me have this moment...)


**wobbly wavy lines transporting us all back in time woooooooo**

foot-loose wrote:
nicola_red wrote:My favourite names are Ruby (my middle name)

So your full name is Nicola Ruby Red?


**wobbly lines bring us forward again**

Beat ya :wink:
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By MK Chris
#291541
I thought I felt a bit of deja vu there.
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By Zoot
#291550
foot-loose wrote:
Zoot wrote:Your name is Nicola Ruby Red?
Very Cool!

(I'm aware that your surname isn't really Red, but let me have this moment...)


**wobbly wavy lines transporting us all back in time woooooooo**

foot-loose wrote:
nicola_red wrote:My favourite names are Ruby (my middle name)

So your full name is Nicola Ruby Red?


**wobbly lines bring us forward again**

Beat ya :wink:


Damn you Loosy, you always make it before me...

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By foot-loose
#291556
Your girlfriend says the same ;)
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By Nicola_Red
#291560
Footloose was taking us back in time. Like that bit at the end of Wayne's World where they do the fake-out endings.
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By Zoot
#291563
foot-loose wrote:Your girlfriend says the same ;)


Yea, you're right there.

She says I've very Important though, so I've got that going for me!
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I'm sure thats what she said.... :?
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By Nicola_Red
#291566
charlalottie wrote:I've never seen Wayne's World.


WHAT????

and I accepted you as a friend on myspace???


you must rectify this situation asap. consider it urgent.
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By Yudster
#291567
Agreed. Party on, Nicola.
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By Nicola_Red
#291573
Yudster wrote:Agreed. Party on, Nicola.


Party on, Yudster.

I have the theme saved as a ringtone, but I'm not using it at the moment, it's Pantera right now. Maybe I'll switch them and have WW on there for a bit.