[Vivienne]

Having being thus far very tolerant, I have now, I'm afraid, run out of tolerance.

In the case of receiving "bizarre" pms, and also continual unwanted and unnecessary comments on this site, I would like some advice please on what to do about it. Thank you.

[Ballbag]

One man's unwanted and unnecessary comment, is another man's entertainment, some may think that you are guilty of it too. And Viv my dear, you do give as good as you get.

[Vivienne]

Ok, fair point: I do give insults and answer back, etc... but I don't do people up odd private messages... I'll say it in front of everyone

[foot-loose]

If you have a complaint about specific members then PM Chris or Console. They are the MODs and PM'ing them is the responsible thing to do.

[Vivienne]

thanx, foots: someone else has given the same advice.

[Chris]

We're all adults and I'm sure there's a simple way to resolve this without dragging your private business into public.

Person-Viv-Is-Complaining-About :: Don't send her any more messages.
Viv :: Don't read any messages from the person you're complaining about, simply delete them.

If anything spills onto the board, there's more we can do.
There, that was easy.

[Ballbag]

You did it again......... "we"......... are you bi-polar?.... Sire...... if you don't mind me asking.

[Vivienne]

thank you, Chris.

[Chris]

You did it again......... "we"......... are you bi-polar?.... Sire...... if you don't mind me asking.

We, being the people who administer the forum.

[Ballbag]

aaaaaah, so how about the we in the "site update" thread... sire.

[Chris]

The 'we' who administer and contribute to the site.

[Yudster]

Chris Harris is including me in his "we"! I couldn't be more excited........!

[Boboff]

One man's unwanted and unnecessary comment, is another man's entertainment, some may think that you are guilty of it too. And Viv my dear, you do give as good as you get.

Hmm

I have a guity conscience about this now.

I haven't sent any messages I would deem bizarre, or indeed under the influence, I have been known to be a bit of a wally under the influence, but haven't "erred" of late (I checked it was 9th October) I am sure. ( only the barbie thing with Gas the other night, buy hey)

On checking the posts my *puts fingers in ear and sings song* comment was a couple of minutes before.

So i think in all likely hood I might be the "bully" of the piece.

So I would like to say.

1. Sorry


The reason for the number is there are lots of other things I want to say, but won't as it is not worth bothering, and absolutely pointless, and the thought of another ConsolevViv style debate is frankly more that I think any of us could take.

so sorry, If it's me that's upset Viv.

If its not me then just accept that I am very paranoid !

[Vivienne]

Actually, it IS you, and I hope this is the end of it. I am NOT the dire monster you appear to think I am. You left me no choice but to do something about it, and I never, ever wanted to have to complain about you, or anyone else. In fact, I was actually sitting crying as I was having to complain. We can move forwards, bboff! It's over to you.

[Ballbag]

Quick... somebody fetch Jeremy Kyle, only he can sort out this mess.

[Vivienne]

It can be sorted easily, I think. We've got a bad personality clash thing going on, which will probably never truly be resolved. But both of us can simply not reply to each others postings. Or do the "pm" thing.

[Boboff]

It can't Viv, thats the point.

I have no right to upset you though.

It is all too Jeremy Kyle, thats the problem.

Who remembers our good friend Bricktop, his PM's were awesome, allot of bodilly penetration with sharp and dirty implements, and he never sussed the censor the swear words so the whole message looked llike a snow storm ! I would love him to return in a one on one with the Vivster.

[Vivienne]

Darling, I'd wipe the floor with him. And, at this point, the discussion is over.

[Yudster]

I remember Bricktop. Where'd he go?