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By MK Chris
#220452
If he lives in Wakefield, he must be looking for a reason to get away anyway.
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By Sidders
#220464
Well yeah, it is a bit dull to be fair.
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By Gigglyboots
#220466
Experience shouldn't matter, I would like a guy regardless of whether he was a virgin or had slept with a number of people, it really shouldn't be a factor at all. What counts is how they are around you, and how they make you feel.

Things are getting better, I'm just going to calm down a little and see what happens.
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By Ickle Angel
#220492
|S| wrote:Well yeah, it is a bit dull to be fair.


If you havent got a kid by 20 and have it with you in the pram while you have a can of special bew in your hand theres something wrong with you
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By Adam
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|S| wrote:If you havn't been reading, you obviously don't care, so why are you asking?


If I didnt care - I wouldnt ask !

I dont always read everything in trash ..
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By MK Chris
#220498
Adam wrote:I dont always read everything in trash ..

But this is not Trash, this is Private...
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By Adam
#220501
Topher wrote:
Adam wrote:I dont always read everything in trash ..

But this is not Trash, this is Private...


True - haha!

:oops:
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By Gigglyboots
#220512
The grass isn't always greener on the other side Sidla, it's still grass.

But moving away from Shetland was probably the best decision I ever made, but it's not for everyone.
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By Sidders
#220515
It's just really annoying, because if I wasn't so obviously crap at reading signs, I would swear she likes me back.

Last night we were at work, and I was transferring all our restaurant glasses from the kitchen into the restaurant bar. She was putting all the rest of the glasses from the main function through the machine while I was doing this, so we were having a bit of a chat. Anyway, for no reason at all, she decided to stop doing her job and help me instead. How can I stop liking her so much when she does stuff like that!!??!?!?!?? So annoying and so confusing!! :evil:
By David
#220522
you've really got to stop looking at signs like that. I used to think the person I liked was playing mind games with me... she even used to tickle me, now seriously.. that screws up your mind more than anything. But I stopped looking at those signs as it drove me insane.

Try and find someone else.
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By kendra k
#220535
david's right about not looking at the "signs" anymore. i know i sort of messed up a guy who took every nice gesture i did, like helping him do something or listening to him when he had a problem, as an indication that i like-liked him. it was tough because i was too young for any sort of relationship. after 2 years of me turning him down, telling him that i wanted be to friends but that i wasn't ready for a relationship (i was 15-16), and his continually aksing me out and getting upset when i said no, i cut off all ties with him. i still feel bad about the whole thing, but i know i wasn't ready for ANY sort of relationship at the time and it was best to be honest with him.

so yeah, at this point you should assume she's not intentionally sending you any signs- she's just trying to be a nice person because she likes you as a friend.

i don't know if you should find somebody else right now, i'd just try to get back to normality for yourself first.
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By MK Chris
#220552
If you intentionally look for someone else it ain't gonna happen. Yeah you might get with someone but it will be for all the wrong reasons and last about five minutes... If you meet someone else it will literally be when you least expect it - it sounds a cliché but it happens like that the vast majority of the time.
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By Quincy
#220556
I met my biatch when i least expected it. i had kind of given up on finding a "girlfriend" and was quite content with shagging a few mingers here and there and then she just appeared!
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By fish heads
#220557
Quincy wrote:and was quite content with shagging a few mingers here and there and then she just appeared!


Then you continued shagging a minger!!!

Oh yes...I went there.
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By Quincy
#220558
how dare you! shes out tonight probably teasing various men but then i get to shag her ha ha unlucky you chav losers!
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By fish heads
#220560
I jest Quincy. I couldn't pull a girl if I tried - which I often do - so I have no room to speak.
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By Quincy
#220561
i meant the chav losers who will be out tonight in the various chav infested cesspits she will frequent.

did bulls win on friday i saw they were winning (salford wasnt it they were playing?) and i watched the first half of st.helens vs leeds.
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By fish heads
#220564
Yeah, they won 46-4 against Salford - pretty good as Salford have been playing well agianst their (quite good) oppposition this season and we haven't set the world alight so far, so a good result. Playing the froggies next week away so we better beat them
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By Sidders
#220587
kendra k wrote:david's right about not looking at the "signs" anymore. i know i sort of messed up a guy who took every nice gesture i did, like helping him do something or listening to him when he had a problem, as an indication that i like-liked him. it was tough because i was too young for any sort of relationship. after 2 years of me turning him down, telling him that i wanted be to friends but that i wasn't ready for a relationship (i was 15-16), and his continually aksing me out and getting upset when i said no, i cut off all ties with him. i still feel bad about the whole thing, but i know i wasn't ready for ANY sort of relationship at the time and it was best to be honest with him.

so yeah, at this point you should assume she's not intentionally sending you any signs- she's just trying to be a nice person because she likes you as a friend.

i don't know if you should find somebody else right now, i'd just try to get back to normality for yourself first.

You're probably right, it's just so hard to live with her being so nice to me when I like her so much. It's so hard to have to accept her friendship when I want more than that. I'm just gonna have to learn to live with it I guess.
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By Mafro
#220592
"Time is the best healer".
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By Gigglyboots
#220609
Don't read signs.. I tickle guys, I buy them drinks, I sit on their knees and chat, and they are just plain friends.
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By Mafro
#220610
Oh you tease!!!
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By Gigglyboots
#220611
If I actually like someone, I probably wouldn't have the guts to behave like that, which is a bit weird.
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By Sidders
#220612
Gigglyboots wrote:If I actually like someone, I probably wouldn't have the guts to behave like that, which is a bit weird.

Same with me, I can be fairly flirtatious with girls I don't fancy.
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By Gigglyboots
#220614
I hate actually fancying someone.. I have a crush on someone just now, and it's messing with my head.
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