[Vivienne]

Well, how could he do anything if he didn't find it attractive? It's the same for me.... if I didn't find bf's hotdogs attractive, I wouldn't be able to have a bf. Common sense, zoots.

[foot-loose]

well, foots must find it attractive.

Why must he find it attractive? You buy a house cause you love the rooms, not just because you like the Fireplace.

You can rip the fireplace out and put a new one in though.

Or get central heating.

That doesn't answer the question though, does it?

[Zoot]

Well, how could he do anything if he didn't find it attractive? It's the same for me.... if I didn't find bf's hotdogs attractive, I wouldn't be able to have a bf. Common sense, zoots.

Thats what light switches are for Viv.
Are you saying that if you didn't think a penis was an attractive thing to look at, it would make you a lesbian?

[Vivienne]

Well, indeed I do think it would make me a lesbian. And I'd never dream of turning off light switches! Never heard anything so ridiculous. The least light I would do is candles.

[MK Chris]

Are you saying that if you didn't think a penis was an attractive thing to look at, it would make you a lesbian?

Not necessarily, she could be asexual or whatever the word is.

I've always asked bf's what it's like to go to the loo; if I can watch

Have these relationships lasted long?!

[Vivienne]

One of the relationships lasted 2+ years, until he ran off with someone else. I was quite glad when he ran away.
Also, he didn't like sex very much, so I was deprived in this area as well.

[Vivienne]

I won't even ask what "passion faces" are.

[pOgO]

I love the fact that this thread is called Aww aled and now we're all talking knobs

[Nicola_Red]

Are you saying that if you didn't think a penis was an attractive thing to look at, it would make you a lesbian?

Not necessarily, she could be asexual or whatever the word is.

I've always asked bf's what it's like to go to the loo; if I can watch

Have these relationships lasted long?!

you don't need to find something aesthetically pleasing to appreciate its uses. I think girls are much more physically attractive than boys, but I've still had more sex with men than I have with women, cos I just like it better.

[Yudster]

Well, indeed I do think it would make me a lesbian. And I'd never dream of turning off light switches! Never heard anything so ridiculous. The least light I would do is candles.

There is nothing remotely aesthetically pleasing about a penis, but it's purpose is not to be looked at and admired. But clearly in Viv-Land this point of view would have me classified immediately as a lesbian.

[Vivienne]

Indeed, it would have you classified as lesbo.!! I guess it's a matter of opinion. What pleases one displeases another, and so on......

[Yudster]

So if it's a matter of opinion, how can it be regarded as an empirical determining factor of someone's sexual orientation?

[Vivienne]

I just think it's odd that you would sleep with someone, and yet not find them physically attractive.

[Yudster]

I do find the person physically attractive - just not their dinkle!

[Vivienne]

hmmmm... this is one of the things that appear to me most (!!) - along with nice hair & eyes.

[Yudster]

For me, I would hope to have made up my mind whether I fancy someone a good long time before I get to the stage of a face to face with their dangly bits though. By the time they come into the equation, they could have pink spangles and I don't think I'd care.

[Andy B]

You've obviously never found yourself stuck in a nightclub ten minutes before they switch the lights on having not yet pulled?

Way way way too many times to remember

[foot-loose]

You are MEANT to pull in nightclubs...?


I should give that a go.

[Andy B]

Well I can recommend a few places in London you might want to try but that's not gonna be much use to you....

[Andy B]

I'm glad there are people out there who base their decisions on more than just looks

[foot-loose]

I'm glad there are people out there who base their decisions on more than just looks

Apparently, as long as you have a sexy schlong, you're alright.

[Andy B]

Buggered on both counts really.

[kendra k]

it's hawt.

[foot-loose]

it's hawt.

This woman has taste.

[MK Chris]

Who knitted that jumper for you foot-loose?